We are currently in the "information age" in which the communications are essential to the operation, say, "natual" of our daily lives. We
users and consumers of mobile telephony, cable television, listen to the radio, press ojeamos, see MTV, news, whatever ... information and communication ... perfect match. We talked to friends and relatives, to strangers, to anyone ... We may be in "contact" with loved ones (and ones yet) who are in other places, or even a wall away, but the only requirement is to make a communicative medium. Often it will be because circumstances do not permit otherwise, or for convenience or who knows? The ultimate goal is: to communicate. Communication
so indispensable as water ...
But ... What do we communicate?
We reach many "means" of communication, including the basics: Talk. Despite that, they are countless occasions when we spent whole days talking and saying hundreds of words ... and do not say anything. Empty talk we exhausted ourselves and who listens to us (and vice versa)
Accustomed to "communications" (in the modern sense of the word) have confused communication with information (also in the modern sense word). What we usually share with our partners is usually a "report" of events, much like read a story in a cool, well diagrammed newspaper.
... at work I was wrong ...
... I enfemé, but I'm fine ...
... I won my exam ...
... I met someone, and I liked ...
... My daughter graduated from ...
right! Our lives are events, that is undeniable, but ... beyond the events in which we live is the detail that makes the difference: how those events touch our lives. Whenever something we live influences us. But Does that also impart? "We hope that what we communicate?
I've seen people who are not so close to the famous role of "modernity" have a capacity to communicate because I always admired, and more than admiration, I always feel really left me something.
As an anecdote: Now that the urgency of the work and sometimes laziness I had to take taxi to get around, I had the opportunity to speak with several taxi drivers. Arjona Now I understand why he could not overlook the famous driver of his song. I would not generalize, but many taxi drivers gentlemen with whom I traveled, we had conversations like we were lifelong friends, talking of trivialities and simple things ... but full of personality. Even one of them was telling me how to deal with sexuality with their teenage daughters, and the truth ... funny besides, it was very witty and informative. If someday I have daughters, I will consider making an adjustment to their wise words.
With the things that happen to us are our interpretations of those facts, and are beyond our dreams, our hopes, our "if only .." (Which was not successful but 'd like the think) and many other things that are of our own. Does not exclude the communicate information that .
do not say a utopia where all are friends of all and where social dialogue is a reality .. NO! Simply, if there is the chance to take her to a reckless driver or a pedestrian ... ! Let's do it! And if given the opportunity to exchange some words with our seatmate in urban transport as well! Let's do it! And if we can establish a communication without saying a word ... much better (as will lovers more clear) But ... whatever you communicate ... passing through our own seasonings.
And you ... What do you think?
